Goal
I have a goal this week to post every day. I only mention this because I know if I don't I won't do it. So check back again tomorrow, because there should be something new again!
Why am I doing this? Well, Morgan is gone again, and I usually give myself a few projects to do while he is gone. It makes the time go by more quickly, and seem more positive. Instead of thinking "Oh, no. We still have another 5 days!" I think "Oh, I'm so glad I still have 5 days to finish my tasks!" It may seem silly, but it really helps me.
Also, I am in the nesting phase of my pregnancy. This is the time when most pregnant women feel the need to make a cozy nest for their new baby, and they spend time setting up the nursery, cleaning, etc. I become completely neurotic at this point, washing walls, filing paperwork, organizing closets, updating 72 hour kits . . . the list goes on and on. Because of course it would be utter neglect on my part to bring a newborn home to a house with unfiled papers and messy closets. Or out of date blogs. Nothing is safe during this point in my pregnancy. I'm pretty sure Morgan has volunteered for all of these work trips just to avoid my nesting phase.
I am feeling pretty good right now, though. Normally at this point in my pregnancy I am much bigger than I am right now. So I am still relatively comfortable. This brings me to one last thought for the day. Can you please help me spread the word? It is NEVER okay to comment on a woman's size! Just because she is pregnant doesn't give strangers and friends alike carte blanche to say whatever comes to mind about a woman's weight. In fact, this is probably the worst time to comment, since the woman has so many hormones coursing through her veins. An example: A seemingly innocent comment made when I was 5 months pregnant, "Oh, you don't have much longer!" Translated by my pregnancy brain: "You are a freak who looks like she is about to give birth at any minute, even though you are only 5 months pregnant!" You see? You can't win. So just don't mention size, okay? This is a miraculous, wonderful time, and women want to feel free to enjoy it, not feel self-conscious.
I have big plans for this week's posts. I have gleaned (okay, stolen) some fun ideas from some friends' blogs for post ideas. So check back tomorrow! See you then!
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8 comments:
:-) You always make me smile. Love you!
oh melodie, you always have a tactful way of teaching people to keep some thoughts to themselves. I still remember you coming back from a date when you were pregnant with lydia and someone had the nerve to ask if it was twins. I learned then to not make any assumptions of others due to the self comscious issues of pregnant women. BTW I hope you get along well while morgan ius away. You amaze me. Take care, Jessica
Finally! Not to scold or anything, but do you know how many times I click on your blog to find you not here? It makes me think you actually have a life (unlike some bloggers..ahem...um..me). I will be here tomorrow. Oh wait, it already IS tomorrow our time, so where the heck are you? :-) Happy nesting!!
I will be checking back too;)
Anna
Been there, done that! I remember when I was 5 month pregnant with Sarinah and I got the craziest look by my husbands friend when I told him I was only 5 months along. I felt 'horrible'. I must have looked like I was 8 and a half months in his eyes. Try not to let the comments bother you! It sounds like you are doing great and you better have all those papers filed before the baby comes! He will know! Just kidding, that was cute!
I am looking forward to your daily contact with you through your blog this week. Good luck with that goal!
I SO remember getting comments like that!!!
I've missed your posts the last couple of weeks! Welcome back! You're so funny, Mel. It's a joy to read your blog and get to know your kids this way.
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